I haven’t written a post in a while but I’m still here and still running and training. I have lots of thoughts running around in my head while I’m out pounding the pavement, especially with Boston creeping up on me. Hopefully I’ll get some of those thoughts written down some time soon.
I do have something I wanted to share with my fellow runners and readers, it’s about the people I meet while out on the street.
I spend a lot of time out on the street running (as many of you do too) so you can imagine I’ve run into many different issues: close calls with cars, bikes, dogs. Been startled by opossums, coyotes, more dogs, a rat once…yikes! But for the most part it’s the people that I see that make my runs “fun”(?) or worthwhile (?). I meet so many people on my runs, (and by meet I mean nod at or wave to) some I see all the time and some I never see again. I don’t know any of their names or where they live but we have one thing in common and that connects us.
I bring this up because recently I’ve had more support from strangers than usual. Do I look like I need it? Are they somehow aware that I’m training for a big race? Not likely, but I’ll take it and smile.
I had a guy high five me when I was doing my hill repeats a couple weeks ago. That was a first, in a non-race setting, but it made me smile and gave me an extra boost to get up that f*&king hill one more time.
Last week on my 13 mile trail run (longest trail run to date) a man with his family were walking down a steep incline as I was running up and he started clapping for me! Did I look like I was dying? Probably. Did I need his extra support? Absolutely! Again, I have never had anyone clap for me in a non-race setting. People are amazing. (So different than my usual saying…”people suck!”) π
Another time recently, a guy (btw, where’s all the support from the women?) told me I had a great stride. Thanks, stranger!
Okay here’s some girl power. On that same long-@ss trail run, some girls from the local cross-country team said “good job!”. I too, gave them a “looking good ladies” on their way out. The boys also gave words of encouragement. Their coach is obviously grooming a great group of young runners.
Not all the people I meet are runners, some are walking their dogs (I’ve been known to stop and pet a puppy every now and then) or riding their bike, walking their kids to school. Some stop me and ask about my dog and we chat for a minute.
I love being outside, around people who also enjoy being outside. We are all out there with similar goals…to get it done. Little gestures of support can be huge when someone is struggling or just plugging along. Take a second to smile, nod or say “great job” to someone. It could make their run/day.
I’m linking with Kim and Zenaida for Tuesdays Topics and Debbie, Smitha, Jen, Rachel, Deborah and Lisa for Runner’s Roundup.
Summer running is hard. Itβs right up there with running in the wind…
Iβve been listening to audio books and podcasts on most of my runs lately…
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Chocolaterunsjudy | 4th Mar 20
Nope, no random high fives. I would probably think it was creepy, actually (from a guy). I do see lots of dog walkers (and of course I’m often walking mine as people are running), and I see people running, too, of course.
I wrote a post a long time ago about people I saw multiple times on the run, and how I would give some of them names (there was Forrest Gump, for instance).
Our HS track teams practice in my neighborhood occasionally, As a slower runner, I have to admit I kind of hate it when they’re out. They usually just ignore me.
Denise | 6th Mar 20
I don’t know what happened to my reply to you but I don’t see it here. ??
The high five was kind of weird from a stranger but we passed each other twice on that hill so I guess he felt like he knew me. π
I like seeing our HS XC team because running is probably new to them so I like to encourage them, especially the back of the pack runners.
Chocolaterunsjudy | 6th Mar 20
I’ll have to go look in spam, occasionally WP does weird things like that.
The HS running team here seems plenty fast to me! But there is usually someone that is way in the back of others. Good for them for sticking with it!
Deborah Brooks | 4th Mar 20
It always feels great to get random unsolicited praise and encouragement while out on a run. Or anytime really! I always try to say hello to other groups of runners it feels good to give and to receive it. Thanks for linking up w us!
Denise | 4th Mar 20
I usually say something encouraging or smile at our local high school cross country team when I see them because I know how much it helps me.
Thanks for the link up. π
kookyrunner | 4th Mar 20
I haven’t received any random high fives during my runs, but sometimes just a smile or a hand wave is so appreciated! So many times I pass runners and they just seem so miserable so it’s nice to see a smile every now and then!
Denise | 4th Mar 20
I don’t always wave at everyone I pass but if they make eye contact I do smile or nod. It kind of irritates me when someone makes eye contact but doesn’t smile. π
Kim at Running on the Fly | 4th Mar 20
Random kindness and encouragement go a long ways in strengthening our community, as well as simply building good cheer among others. Heck, there’s already too many cynics and critics…we need more feel-good moments to keep the world smiling. I think it was last summer (or maybe two years ago), but I was doing a stair workout on the outdoor stairway (it’s part of the college campus, but butts up against the golf course). A guy pulled over, in his golf cart, and started clapping for me. I realized it was a co-worker (he’s about the age of my father LOL)…and he was like, “Are you going up and down on purpose? How many times? Wow! ” It was too funny π
Denise | 4th Mar 20
“…on purpose?” Lol!! Yes, that’s what we do. The running community is such a great thing to be apart of!
Catrina | 4th Mar 20
I love this post! A little thing like a smile from a random stranger can make such a difference to a run!
People here in South Africa are very outgoing and full of smiles. The other day we were doing some banded skater walks, where we’re walking in a low squat with a band across our knees, eyes towards the ground. A man passed by and asked us if we had lost something. It was a very fitting joke and we all laughed!
Denise | 4th Mar 20
South Africa is on my bucket list of places to visit. Those banded skater walks sound intense!
Thanks for reading.
Lisa @ Mile by Mile | 4th Mar 20
That’s so great! I don’t see many people when I run outside. And those I do see generally dont interact with me. I try to give a smile or wave but most people are just doing their own thing!
Denise | 4th Mar 20
I get that some people are just doing their own thing so I try not to let it bug me, but it still does a little. A little smile or nod is so easy.
Thanks for reading!
Debbie Woodruff | 4th Mar 20
I’m just happy when other runners (or walkers) actually acknowledge my greeting. It’s amazing how many people don’t say “hi” back.
Denise | 4th Mar 20
I know, right? I pass the same man all the time and he never makes eye contact with me. It kind of bugs me. :-/
Marcia | 5th Mar 20
I don’t see many people while I’m out running but of course all of us runners give each other a nod or wave. There was one guy though, who greeted me by name. I have no clue who he was. That was weird.
Denise | 6th Mar 20
That is weird. It would kind of freak me out if that happened.
runswithpugs | 5th Mar 20
Back when I was running, we would often go in the dark before the sun came up, so we would see the same people, but we wouldn’t really interact. However, I have absolutely gotten some positive vibes from strangers in those rare daylight runs, and it’s always provided a boost. I think some people recognize hard work, and want to compliment it when they see it.
Denise | 6th Mar 20
I completely agree. Hopefully you’ll be running again soon. Thanks for the link up!
Zenaida Arroyo | 8th Mar 20
I run by my house so I never see the same people again. At least I don’t think so. However, I’ve had a few people smile and tell me that I was doing a great job. That makes me smile.
Denise | 9th Mar 20
Smiles are contagious and we need more of that in this crazy world we live in. π
Zenaida Arroyo | 15th Mar 20
I agree!