Coffee Talk: October Edition

It’s been a long long time since I’ve written a blog post but what better way to get back into the swing of things than linking up with Deborah and Coco for the Ultimate Coffee Date. Thanks ladies for this opportunity to share a few things that we might not want to post for the whole world to see. 

The Ultimate Coffee Date 

This morning I’ll be changing it up with Don Francisco’s dark roast instead of my usual San Francisco’s French roast. And I’ll be enjoying it in my new cup to support my amazing friend Amy who is fighting breast cancer.

Amy’s Army

 

Over coffee I’d tell you how I haven’t been doing much running, or anything for that matter, lately. Some of you may know I ran the virtual Boston Marathon (recap coming soon) but with all the fires I took a week off waiting for the air to clear. Then my hip was bugging me so I ran a couple slow, short runs. Then…I woke up with low back spasms which is better now but still doesn’t feel quite right.  It’s 2020, that’s all I’m going to say.

Over coffee I’d say I am happy to announce that I am a partial empty nester. Woohoo! My oldest moved out, and yes I do miss having her here but she only lives 15 minutes away and works about 3 minutes from my house. I already have my plan for her room in the works. I’m calling it my yoga/quiet room. I’m going all Zen-like with it in hopes of practicing more yoga and Pilates. God knows my body needs it!

Pinterest inspiration

And speaking of new rooms I’d tell you over coffee that we’ve had painters here all week painting my living room, dining room, entry, hallway, and yes my daughters old room. Things have snowballed the way they do when you start any home improvement project. My daughter is taking my coffee and end table so naturally I needed a new living room set and rug, which meant the walls needed updating and so on and so on. And of course we had a heatwave this week so I had to sit outside and melt with my 2 German Shepherds because we couldn’t be in the house. I love summer but I am in need of some Fall weather! It’s been a hot week.

This is my life. Looking forward to the finished product!

Oh, and one last thing, we rescued a turtle we called Fred. He was here for 2 days and left. My daughter and her boyfriend found him crossing a very busy 6 lane street so picked him up and brought him home. Everything I read says you shouldn’t do that. You should help them cross the street and let them go on their merry way. Don’t turn them around because it will disorient them and if you relocate them they will just try to get back to where they belong.

So we basically did everything wrong but in our defense he would never have survived crossing that street. Secondly, where could he have possibly been going? We don’t live in a rural area. The closest water is at a golf course 1 mile in the opposite direction in which he was going and I’m not even sure there are turtles there. His underside was dry and peeling as if he had been walking on the hot concrete a long time. We’re thinking he was someone’s pet and they let him go. In the 2 days we had him he was in and out of our pond several times and ate the mealworms that we fed him. I thought he was happy. I’m a little disappointed he left and hope he made it somewhere safe.

Not a good pic, but here’s Fred.

I could go on but it’s your turn. Thanks for reading, this was a long one. I hope everyone is doing well and staying healthy.

Have you ever rescued an animal? Would you be sad or celebrating when your kids leave the nest? Maybe a little of both?

Keep running my friends, if not for you then for me. 🙂

             Denise

20 COMMENTS

  1. deborahbrooks14 | 2nd Oct 20

    I definitely miss my kiddos right now but it’s better for them to be off on their own. I am also in the process of creating a little yoga nook in my gym. i always need inspiration to do more yoga. Thanks for joining for coffee!

    • Denise | 2nd Oct 20

      I know I would feel differently if she was further away. And it’s only been a week. It was time for her to be on her own too.
      I wish I had a gym but I don’t have that kind of room in my tiny house. 😉

  2. Laurie | 2nd Oct 20

    It’s a shame Fred left! I hope he comes back. You did a good deed.

    • Denise | 2nd Oct 20

      I just hope he is alive and well.

  3. Michelle D. | 2nd Oct 20

    I like your plans to create a yoga/quiet room! It is funny the way home projects snowball, but just think how much you’ll love the end results! I hope you’ll post pictures.

  4. Michelle D. | 2nd Oct 20

    I love your plan for a yoga/quiet room! It is funny the way home projects snowball, but just think of how happy you’ll be with the results. I hope you post pictures when you’re done.

    • Denise | 2nd Oct 20

      The painting is almost done…it has taken so long. I can’t wait to see it with the new furniture. I will post a picture. 😊

  5. Lisa @ Mile by Mile | 2nd Oct 20

    I can’t imagine having a kid leave since I have so long to go. I already joke that he’s never moving out, but I’m sure my feelings on that will change!

    • Denise | 2nd Oct 20

      That’s what I always said. I’m mostly excited for this new chapter in her life. It’s time for her to be on her own. It would be a completely different story if she moved across the country like I did.

  6. Wendy | 2nd Oct 20

    We’re doing some reno here too but not so much redecorating as I’d like! Empty nesters too. It’s taken some getting used to but I sure do love seeing the boys when they come home!

    • Denise | 3rd Oct 20

      I’m not much of a decorator so it’s been a lot of looking at Pinterest.
      I know it’s going to be hard when my nest is completely empty.

  7. Marcia | 3rd Oct 20

    I’d be sad about the move out but very happy she’ll be so close. I cringe when I see turtles trying to cross busy streets. It happens a lot around here and I stop and help the on their way when I can but sometimes there’s nowhere to pull over. Love that zen room. Nobody uses any color anymore!

    • Denise | 3rd Oct 20

      Yes I am very happy that she is so close.
      I like the clean look of all the shades of white but adding some color makes it your own.

  8. Coco | 3rd Oct 20

    I was sad when my youngest went off to college, but he was playing lacrosse so we got to seem over a lot of weekends. Bummer on
    Fred. It sounds like you did the best you could!

    • Denise | 3rd Oct 20

      I was sad leading up to her moving out but having her so close (and it’s only been a week) is nice.

  9. Chocolaterunsjudy | 3rd Oct 20

    I’m pretty sure my parents were celebrating when I (the baby) left the nest. They were practically pushing me out, LOL!

    OTOH, both my sister & brother’s kids, who are young adults, have come back to live with them. Some for long periods of time, unfortunately for them (yes, 2020 indeed).

    So sorry to hear about your hip & back. I hope it feels better soon! Being in pain is never fun. I worked hard on my spare room this year to turn it, at least partially, into my Yoga room. It’s where I film my Yoga videos for my YouTube channel. It’s not completely done, I still have some clutter to attack, but I love going in there now!

    • Denise | 3rd Oct 20

      I didn’t know you had yoga videos on YouTube. I will have to look for them. I’m excited about my room and I should be able to avoid clutter since it’s empty now and I’m starting from scratch.

      • Chocolaterunsjudy | 3rd Oct 20

        https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV7g9S4rvfEo2YxarOmTqcQ

        🙂

        Unfortunately mine had been used as a cat room/second closet for a long time. I haven’t quite cleared out the clutter — but like 90% of it. Apparently I needed a goal to work towards. 🙂

    • Denise | 3rd Oct 20

      Oh and my back is normal now thank goodness. Thanks for the well wishes. 🙂

      • Chocolaterunsjudy | 3rd Oct 20

        Glad to hear that! Back pain is a misery.

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